Common misconceptions about infertility

Infertility is a complex issue, and several myths and misconceptions surround it. Here's a look at some of the most prevalent ones: 

1. Infertility is always the woman's fault

• Fact: Infertility affects both men and women.

• Male factors contribute to infertility in approximately 35% of cases, while female factors account for another 35%.

• The remaining 30% are either caused by a combination of both or are unexplained. 

2. Infertility is rare

• Fact: Infertility is more common than many people realize.

• Approximately 1 in 8 couples experience infertility, and about 10% of women in the U.S. have difficulty getting pregnant or staying pregnant, according to the CDC. 

3. If you just relax, you'll get pregnant

• Fact: Infertility is a medical condition and not simply caused by stress.

• While stress can impact overall health and well-being, it's not the root cause of infertility.

• Stress management techniques can be beneficial for coping with the emotional challenges of infertility, but they won't necessarily lead to conception. 

4. Infertility only affects older women

• Fact: While age does play a role in fertility, particularly for women over 35, infertility can affect individuals of all ages.

• Factors such as underlying medical conditions, lifestyle choices, and genetics can contribute to infertility regardless of age.

• For example, secondary infertility, which is the inability to conceive after previously having a child, is more common than many realize. 

5. Infertility treatment is always successful

• Fact: While advancements in fertility treatments have increased the chances of success, there's no guarantee.

• Success rates vary depending on a number of factors, including age, the cause of infertility, and the specific treatment method used.

• For example, the live birth rate after a cycle of egg retrieval is about 55% for women under 35, while it drops to 4% for women over 42.

6. Adoption is the easy solution for infertility

• Fact: Adoption is a way to build a family but is not simply a "solution" to infertility. It involves its own unique challenges and should be approached after processing the grief of not having biological children. 

Infertility is a complex issue that requires a holistic and compassionate approach. Seeking accurate information and support from healthcare professionals and support groups is crucial for navigating its challenges.